Riyadus Saliheen – Hadeeth No. 68 (Confidentiality in the matters of conflict between husband and wife)Download

Allah Almighty states in the Holy Quran:

اِنَّ رَبَّکَ لَبِالْمِرْصَادِ ﴿ؕ۱۴﴾

Indeed, nothing is hidden from the sight of your Lord.

(Al-Fajr 89, Verse 14)

Tafseer:

{إِنَّ رَبّك لَبِالْمِرْصَادِ} يَرْصُد أَعْمَال الْعِبَاد فَلَا يَفُوتهُ مِنْهَا شَيْء لِيُجَازِيَهُمْ عَلَيْهَا

Assuredly your Lord is ever on the watch, watching over the deeds of servants, nothing of which escapes Him, that He may then requite them for these [deeds].

(Tafseer Jalalain)

Hadeeth:

عَنْ عُمَرَرَضِیَ اللہُ عَنْہُ،عَنِ النَّبِیِّ صَلَّی اللہُ عَلَیْہِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ:’ لَا یُسْأَلُ الرَّجُلُ فِیْمَ ضَرَبَ اِمْرَأَتَہ ‘۔

 (ابو داؤد ، کتاب النکاح ، باب فی ضرب النسائ، ۲/۳۵۷،حدیث:۲۱۴۷)

Sayyiduna ‘Umar – may Allah be pleased with him – reported: The Messenger of Allah – may Allah send peace and blessings upon him – said, “A man is not to be asked why he fought with his wife.”

(Abu Dawood)